Friday, October 28, 2011

Responsibility.


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Everyone has responsibility. "It's a particular burden of obligation upon one who is responsible". In every act there is responsibility that came for it. People can't just do whatever they want and not dealing with what comes next. Just watched this "16 and pregnant" on mtv and one word just occurred in my head, responsible. Some people just do the fun and forget what is the consequences of their action. This girl in particular, get pregnant when she was 17 and her boyfriend was only 15. Both of them have a plan to give their baby into adoption after she gave birth the baby. I think they weren't responsible enough for their action, even though they were saying that the baby will have a better future rather than keeping the baby. But hey, mother does really important in someone's life.  No offense for those who been through the same things, this is only my own opinion and I'm not saying that this is bad but in the way that I think, it's not responsible enough.
Another thing that came with responsibility is commitment. Commitment does include in responsibility; when you commit to do something, you have to be responsible to finish it off. For example : work, I commit to myself to find a job and not only depending on my parents treasure or money. I want to buy things with my own money not theirs. So regardless to the crazy traffic in Jakarta. I'm still encouraging my ass to get up early and go to work. You have no idea how the traffic really bad here, it takes almost one hour from my house to office (bummer). So be responsible with what you've done guys and never give up ! Btw here are some pictures that were taken last year, wearing a tailored gown - my own design.








The traffic captured that day, even in daylight the traffic was that crazy !

29 comments:

  1. You look stunning! Love the dress, amazing :)

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  2. You look amazing, so beautiful.

    Have a sunny weekend.
    Tereza.

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  3. I agree with you. And with responsibility also comes accountability. And that grows into trust. Love your thoughts here.

    The gown is fabulous, and more so because it's your design. you look glorious.

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  4. Woooowwww....so wonderful!!! Beautiful shoes!!! :-)

    Kisses,
    Miriam
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  5. woah you look stunning,really ! esp in the first pic :D

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  6. you are so beautiful,,
    i'm in love with your shoes

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  7. I love that dress! And its so true, people really need to learn that their actions have consequences...
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  8. I love how you incorporate these important messages in your blog! People don't think before they react. It's sad! SUPER adore your dress. It is truly stunning and you are working it girl. Those shoes are fab! Have a great weekend! :D
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  9. That dress looks gorgeous on you!

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  10. Great look!!!

    Kisses Elle.

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  11. I agree...what a great way of thinking you have! Younger people these days dont always think ahead...love the dress....happy weekend!

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  12. thanks ♥
    really nice pics, you look so pretty :)

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  13. amazing photos!love your shoes!!
    kisses pretty!=)

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  14. gorgeous! love the cut of that dress with the back-long hem :)

    XO Sahra
    EffortlessCool

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  15. These are amazing photos ! LOVE that dress and the streetview is INSANE ! x

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  16. SWEET ! the dress is amazeballsss !

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  17. perfect posed and smile...I like it so much! ;)
    a glamour black dress...
    love,
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  18. Your dress is gorgeous as well as the city of Jakarta! I've never been. I've watched a few episodes of teen mom and I can't handle it.

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  19. These are a gorgeous set of photos babe, you look awesome! :)


    xoxo,
    Addie
    The Cat Hag

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  20. Gorgeous dress and it looks great on you! Thank you so much for your comment and you have such a great blog! -akiko

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  21. Totally agree with you. Eventhough I'm lucky enough that my office is only about half hour drive away, it's still often difficult to drag my lazy bone to go to work on most days, especially when outside weather is gloomy, as I ranted in my newest post.
    Thumbs up for those who are discipline enough to keep commitment, any commitment!

    LeeAnne, Style N Season
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  22. Beautiful dress ad shoes!

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  23. I can't believe you designed that dress! It looks absolutely stunning on you :D

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  24. Woow, love these photos... :)
    Btw, thanks for your comment.
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    xoxo
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